Saturday, March 26, 2011
Ok.. Really??? WTF?????
Ok... i dont even know where to begin with this day... talk about a really insane ... just.. wow.. kind of day... ok... soooooo had a nice start, got to talk to my mother and it has been i dunno... a week and a half since i talked to her. i missed her dearly. so from there.. the downward spiral started... Sid came over and told me that my brother was going to take my dog when he left because he felt sorry for her (meaning we don't take enough care of her) which set me off.. and i tried to talk to him calmly about it.. but he got pissed that Sid told me, (mainly bc it was horribly twisted) so that escalated into a screaming match (which we haven't had in a long time...) we worked that out.. and then some chick started in on me in the store, telling me to move my "fat ass" says the girl pushing 400lbs. she said this because she was annoyed at where i was standing... i was already fired up so i told her she should consider looking in a mirror. sometimes i hate how ghetto fabulous this town is.. i mean god.. you don't have to be a bi**h to the girl who WASNT paying in food stamps! my husband works so you and your lazy fat a*s can eat! (which apparently i need to explain that statement, one she selected ebt on the payment machine, two, she drove and effen bmw, three, her kids clothes cost more than mine, so clearly she doesnt need assistance, she is lazy because she would rather tell me i was fat than walk around me.. and she is fat because literally three of me would equal one of her) uuughghghghghghgh. anyways.. that wasn't good.. then... barb called to tell me that tom kidnapped my nieces.. after threatening to kill them and nikki... which just.. horrifies me... i love those girls as much as i do Heidi... i will be saying quite a few prayers for all of them tonight... then... gary decided to hit on emily... needed that like a hole in the head... and there was much fighting while i was trying to talk to barb. i missed most of it but had to deal with the back lash... i am just sooooo happy today is over and all i hear right now is the laughter of the worlds most beautiful baby as she enjoys her bath...
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Okay, so I'm just going to be blunt here. I understand the annoyance with the bigger person commenting on your size. Fine. But why do you have to go and attack the fact that she might be using food stamps? First of all, why even use that? Do you know for a fact?
ReplyDeleteI personally take great offense at this statement. Basically you're saying that all people on food stamps are fat asses and lazy. I'll have you know that I neither have a fat ass, nor am I lazy. But you know what, if it wasn't for food stamps both growing up, and now, I would be dead.
Kash and I have been job hunting for years now with NO success. If it wasn't for the fact we managed to be approved for assistance via food stamps, we would have starved to death by now. Since there is no one else around helping support us. We only have a roof over our head, and power supported for us, and who knows for how much longer even that will be provided.
Just a little -food- for thought. Don't be so judgmental, and narrow-minded. And in the future, it's probably best you don't group a whole by an individual. And even better, don't jump to conclusions just because you're all "fired up". You just never know who is reading, and who else you might be targeting with your words.
So, I'm also just a bit pissed off by what you had to say about this situation myself. I think its a bit fucked up you would be so judgmental just because you are "all fired up" as you said. Not everyone is a lazy fat ass just because they use food stamps. Ever think that person/people that are using food stamps have been looking for years for work? Or, how about those people that actually do have jobs and are still on them to help support their family? Because this world is a fucked up place and things don't always go the way you plan. I am very offended by this, but the difference between Kai and I is that I am actually over weight. With that said, just because someone is bigger than you doesnt mean they have a fat ass. That they are lazy, or even can help the fact that they are as big as they are. It could be an eating disorder. It could be a medical condition that keeps them as big as they are. Hell, it could be both. I personally hate the fact that you can be so cruel and mean. You just shown that by this entry, but to each their own. Fired up or not, as Kai always tell me - think before you speak.
ReplyDeleteFirst of all...i have nothing against people who accept food stamps WHEN THEY NEED THEM. But when she is driving around in a BMW wearing FuBu clothes i take great offense that she plays the system like that. I at one point in time needed assistance, for ONE MONTH of my life i accepted foodstamps. So it is certainly not that. I have a problem which people like her to have zero concept of how to be a decent human being. I didnt deserve the shit she gave me, my stroller got stuck, she had no right to call me a fat bitch when i one, was only 180 lbs and two, i didnt do any thing to her. I don't care that she is mad at the world. She didn't need to be a cunt to me. You guys can take offense all you want, but what you should be offended by is people like her who set the standard for people on food stamps so low. that make people on food stamps look like beggers. i for one know the difference. and find it offensive that you dont know me better than that by now.
ReplyDeleteoh and yes, i do know for a fact, i saw her with my own eyes select ebt on he payment box. and i wasnt trying to imply that she was lazy and thats why she had food stamps. i found her lazy becuase rather than walk around me, and there was room, she decided to be a lazy little shit and be a bitch to me.. just so we are clear.
ReplyDeleteWell, I asked you, how you know for a fact that she was using food stamps. Because, to assume, is never a good idea. And, I am also going by past blogs from your old blog, and plurks, from your old plurk, and convo's on plurk, or blogs, between you and Jax, bagging on a lot of different things, that even back then I took slight offense to. Not enough for me to say, okay, I can't be your friend, but enough for me to show some reserve when speaking openly. Also, I said I agree with you being angry, etc for her calling you a fat ass. She had no reason. People like that are rude, and we could definitely do with less people like that. I mean, it's a store, if you can't wait a moment while someone tries to unstick their stroller/cart from being in a jam, then you have some major problems. My main issue was you going off, about her being a food stamps user, (not abuser, as you didn't state in your blog anything about a bmw etc). You forget, we are commenting on what you actually wrote in your blog. We only know what you tell us. :)
ReplyDeleteBtw- I wasn't saying that you are a mean person, etc. I was just saying that from what you wrote, it seemed to be very judgemental on your part, as well as offensive. Since, again, as stated, after all, we only know what you tell us, and from what you told us, ie the readers of this blog, you were attacking that she used food stamps, and that she was a fat lazy slob and had no right to use food stamps. No hard feelings, at least for me, towards you. I still love ya, and I know you wouldn't ever do anything to hurt anyone on purpose.
ReplyDeleteso wait.. you are saying stuff jax and i talked about offended you? lol.. that doesn't surprise, jax is the most judgemental, racist, manapiulative person i know. shit she said offened me too! but she is not the kind of person you can say that too, you have to just agree or listen to hours and hours of why she is right to hate "niggers" and such, i dont agree with any of her shit.. i just didnt want a four hour earfull.. it was one of the things i had to look past with her, so please dont think i am the same as she was!
ReplyDeleteas far as not explaining.. well.. i didnt think i had to, it wasnt like i said you and kash were scummy for accepting food stamps.. i also didnt call either of you fat or lazy.. so i didnt think i needed to clarify
ReplyDeleteWell, it's one thing if you had stated that you knew this girl, aside from just her doing that to you, and what you said. When you stated it the way you did, as if you knew nothing else aside from the fact that she was overweight, and used food stamps, and then go off and attack her for using said food stamps while she's lazy, and your husband works to feed her, etc etc, it expands to include all those that use food stamps. Now that you've narrowed the situation down, to include you actually saw her use the stamps, and saw her drive off in a nice bmw.. well then, that leads us to believe you're talking to her, and not the group.
ReplyDelete*sigh* guess i must be more pc on my blog
ReplyDeletealso, i should tell you, jax got so bad on her fb page, my mother who works at a university had to make it not show her updates because they were so inappropriate, she was happy when jax deleted our family as friends, of course her immature friends sill comment on pics that i am tagged in, saying things like i am a little fat cunt and they hate me and so on, about 10 of my friends reported those comments, face book of course did nothing.
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